Why Men Want Sex and Women Want Love???
Men are frustrated with women because they never
want sex.
Women are frustrated with men because they always
wants love.
Women blame men that they don't know how to love.
Men blame women that they only talk about love but
don't want to make it.
Whether you are a man or a woman, reading this
article can change your life - finally, you will
be able to get rid of your frustrations about the
opposite gender.
The reason humans want sex is due to the hormone
testosterone, which is predominantly male hormone.
A normal male's body produces 20 times more of
this hormone than a female's.
In other words, a male feels the same way after
one day without sex as a female after 20 days
without sex. A male that has not had sex in 20
days feels the same way as a female after more
than a year without sex.
Knowing this simple difference, you can already
understand the pain of the opposite gender. It's
NOT their fault: they are made this way! It's in
our genes! This is the reason why men are men and
women are women.
Men and women are DIFFERENT.
Not better or worse, just different.
A man can father a child every time he has sex,
and a woman can only mother a child every two
years or so. This means, a woman HAS TO be picky
about who she allows to have sex with her.
For generations women were paying too high a price
for making a wrong choice. Women that have chosen
men with bad genes had a weaker offspring and
their children struggled to survive. Women that
have chosen men with good genes had a stronger
offspring and their children survived
disproportionably. Those children were carrying
their picky mother's genes and this is why those
female genes were passed to us.
On the other hand, men never had adverse
consequences of making a wrong choice. The more
children they produced, the higher was their
chance to pass their genes to future generations,
as some of them would certainly survive. While men
were determined to seek better genes too, they had
to grab all chances to procreate coming their way
to ensure their genes would be passed forward. The
men that ONLY stuck with one woman (even a high
quality woman) were losing genetically to the men
that used all of their opportunities and had many
more children that survived. Those children were
carrying their father's promiscuous genes, and
this is why those male genes were passed to us.
By Nature men are made to seek as much sex as they
can get, so they can spread their seed wider.
By Nature women are made to seek as many admirers
as they can get, so they can make a better choice
and get the best seed.
Men seek quantity - women seek quality.
This is why men seek sex and women seek love.
Love is the proof that a woman needs to have some
assurance that the man will stick around and help
her with the upbringing of the offspring. For a
woman, sex is the culmination of her emotional
commitment to a man.
For a man, sex is a physical act that eases the
testosterone pressure he experiences constantly.
Only after this tension has gone, can a man feel
love towards a woman. This is why it often happens
that men disappear after they got what they
wanted: it wasn't love; it was the testosterone
pressure. Sex for men is the reality check of
their passion.
This is why having sex early in the relationship
is hazardous for women: the man has not had the
time to develop any romantic feelings for her. He
needs time to develop those feelings, and the only
way to do it is through keeping the sexual tension
going for as long as practicable. Sex must be
attainable, nearly possible - but not quite. When
the sexual tension is at its peak, its release is
mind-blowing - and once is never enough, which
lays a proper foundation for a future relationship
- and love.
Men fall in love through sex; women fall in sex
through love.
All of this happens on the unconscious level - we
do NOT realize what's going on.
But the reason why you are here today and alive is
because each and every of your ancestors, men and
women, acted true to their instincts and managed
to attract at least one sexual partner and produce
an offspring.
So, there is no need to be bitter about men
wanting sex and women wanting love. Those two are
the necessary pieces of the puzzle called Survival
Of The Species.
And you'll be better off understanding what the
other gender is going through and giving them
exactly what they want: a mind-blowing sex or
exhilarating love.
want sex.
Women are frustrated with men because they always
wants love.
Women blame men that they don't know how to love.
Men blame women that they only talk about love but
don't want to make it.
Whether you are a man or a woman, reading this
article can change your life - finally, you will
be able to get rid of your frustrations about the
opposite gender.
The reason humans want sex is due to the hormone
testosterone, which is predominantly male hormone.
A normal male's body produces 20 times more of
this hormone than a female's.
In other words, a male feels the same way after
one day without sex as a female after 20 days
without sex. A male that has not had sex in 20
days feels the same way as a female after more
than a year without sex.
Knowing this simple difference, you can already
understand the pain of the opposite gender. It's
NOT their fault: they are made this way! It's in
our genes! This is the reason why men are men and
women are women.
Men and women are DIFFERENT.
Not better or worse, just different.
A man can father a child every time he has sex,
and a woman can only mother a child every two
years or so. This means, a woman HAS TO be picky
about who she allows to have sex with her.
For generations women were paying too high a price
for making a wrong choice. Women that have chosen
men with bad genes had a weaker offspring and
their children struggled to survive. Women that
have chosen men with good genes had a stronger
offspring and their children survived
disproportionably. Those children were carrying
their picky mother's genes and this is why those
female genes were passed to us.
On the other hand, men never had adverse
consequences of making a wrong choice. The more
children they produced, the higher was their
chance to pass their genes to future generations,
as some of them would certainly survive. While men
were determined to seek better genes too, they had
to grab all chances to procreate coming their way
to ensure their genes would be passed forward. The
men that ONLY stuck with one woman (even a high
quality woman) were losing genetically to the men
that used all of their opportunities and had many
more children that survived. Those children were
carrying their father's promiscuous genes, and
this is why those male genes were passed to us.
By Nature men are made to seek as much sex as they
can get, so they can spread their seed wider.
By Nature women are made to seek as many admirers
as they can get, so they can make a better choice
and get the best seed.
Men seek quantity - women seek quality.
This is why men seek sex and women seek love.
Love is the proof that a woman needs to have some
assurance that the man will stick around and help
her with the upbringing of the offspring. For a
woman, sex is the culmination of her emotional
commitment to a man.
For a man, sex is a physical act that eases the
testosterone pressure he experiences constantly.
Only after this tension has gone, can a man feel
love towards a woman. This is why it often happens
that men disappear after they got what they
wanted: it wasn't love; it was the testosterone
pressure. Sex for men is the reality check of
their passion.
This is why having sex early in the relationship
is hazardous for women: the man has not had the
time to develop any romantic feelings for her. He
needs time to develop those feelings, and the only
way to do it is through keeping the sexual tension
going for as long as practicable. Sex must be
attainable, nearly possible - but not quite. When
the sexual tension is at its peak, its release is
mind-blowing - and once is never enough, which
lays a proper foundation for a future relationship
- and love.
Men fall in love through sex; women fall in sex
through love.
All of this happens on the unconscious level - we
do NOT realize what's going on.
But the reason why you are here today and alive is
because each and every of your ancestors, men and
women, acted true to their instincts and managed
to attract at least one sexual partner and produce
an offspring.
So, there is no need to be bitter about men
wanting sex and women wanting love. Those two are
the necessary pieces of the puzzle called Survival
Of The Species.
And you'll be better off understanding what the
other gender is going through and giving them
exactly what they want: a mind-blowing sex or
exhilarating love.
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